Retha's Diary

Hello, Companionship "Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up." — Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 It has been two years since I last wrote about you. One might think that two years is a short time, but looking back, I realise it has been a time of learning and unlearning, breaking and rebuilding. You have been both a source of joy and heartache, a teacher in ways I never expected. I once thought you were something that simply happened—a natural force, an inevitable presence. But I have come to realise that you are intentional, a choice we make every day. You have held my hand in laughter and wiped my tears in silence. You have shown up in friendships that flourished and in relationships that faded. You have taught me that love is not just about being present but about choosing to stay, to nurture, to walk alongside even when the road is rou...

Turning 28 feels surreal — as though I’m standing at the crossroads of who I was and who I’m becoming. Reflecting on the past few years — the triumphs, the heartaches, the lessons, and the moments filled with grace — one truth remains clear: God has been faithful through it all. This year, I’m marking my birthday a little differently. Planting butternut seeds has become more than a simple tradition; it’s a symbolic act of growth and surrender. Just as those seeds take root and grow under God’s care, I too am choosing to root myself deeper in His love and purpose. Today, I am dedicating this moment to prayer, seeking to draw closer to God and hear His voice more clearly. Life has not always been easy, but through every season, His faithfulness has remained constant. I choose to honour both the challenges that have shaped me and the victories that have reminded me of His unending grace. 10th February 2025 Dear Diary, Three years ago, we began our journey together. I had just turned 25, a...